Thursday, July 15, 2010 @1:18 am
my flowers still smell very nice :)
quote back to myself:
"i've got friends who are still very good friends even though we can never remember to talk very often.
friends who always try to talk to me, no matter how busy i am :)
the one important thing i've learnt about friends from a long time ago is to beware of, what i call, friends in the moment. these are people with whom you can have a great time, but to whom you don't really matter. and hence, not to expect anything more than the occasional good time."
quote from ceci:
"sometimes we r too caught up and we get busy with our own lives
we dont talk as often
but doesnt mean anything
cause we are still close
hence with all the expectations
it might put a strain on the friendship because one party would expect too much from the other
with ur good friends
there is no need to make it a point to like talk every day kind of thing
just as long as both knows
that they r there when u need them
and u do meet up
then its fine"
my final analysis:
too caught up in our own lives, but the beauty is when you make it a point to catch up.
and as with any other relationship (platonic or romantic) there's always a certain degree of expectation.
i find myself on both sides of the balance, hence my above quote to manage expectations, and to think of others' expectations when i'm tempted to just blow them off.
last 2 days of work! before another month before school starts :)
July is the month when everyone is back! I like!